This post started life on the 'Never Work Alone' Blog, A question arose there about how to get IT folk and 'other' folk in organisations to understand each other and talk and work together. I think the key to understanding the problem lies in this perceptive observation by Dwayne Melancon:
"there is something strange about how non-technical people view IT problems: they often blame themselves. If you use a non-IT product and it doesn’t work effectively, you blame the product. On numerous occasions, however, I’ve heard people having trouble with software say things like, “I must be stupid - I can’t get it to do what I want it to do.” Bizarre phenomenon"
Yes it is a phenomenon, and as such it is worth a closer look. Where does this attitude come from, how is it maintained (because it is persistent and very widespread), and what are the implications of it?
I'd suggest that the attitude expressed 'clasically' as "I don't know anything about computers" has been largely created and maintained by IT service deliverers because it puts them in a position of 'power' in relation to the IT consumers. It is much easier to 'get things done' when nobody questions you, and it is flattering to be called a guru.
But how does a small group of IT people persuade a much larger group of IT consumers to adopt an unflattering view of their own capabilities? Perhaps it has something to do with how proponents of IT technology have had an inordinate amount of power in organisations in the last 25 years. And because it 'suits' IT consumers to avoid to some degree taking responsibility for their IT environments.
To save time in psychological explanation, consider someone you know who says "I can't drive a car, it just something I can't do". Then consider what you have already concluded lies behind that - some trauma (perhaps) or some shrinking back from taking responsibility.
When those attitudes are reinforced by virtually every interaction IT consumers have with IT service deliverers, they can be remarkably persistent. I'm not suggesting that IT techs abuse customers to their faces (although some do), but even the politest rarely respond to the "I don't know much" with "yes you do, and if there's something that you need to know that we haven't taught you then it is our fault, and lets do something to fix that."
The consequences of this mutually satisfying (if largely unconscious) relationship are damaging to the organisation. The IT people having determined that IT consumers are to blame for 'everything' are effectively denying themselves the opportunity to recognize opportunities to improve the IT enviroment (because you have to take responsibility for something before you are motivated to fix or improve it); while the IT consumers are foregoing a (potentially) huge boost in productivity through failing to request/demand/take-up opportunities to use IT in 'cleverer' ways to drive their companies business.
My problem with ITIL is that it takes a process (and forms) based approach - which are good things in themselves - but fails to recognise individual and organisation dynamics which are often 'irrational', but nonetheless 'real' and therefore need to be dealt with via real world strategies.
So how do you fix this unhealthy relationship. My suggestion (and here I'm skating on thinner ice because I've only ever succeeded at this 'to a small degree') is to challenge the belief in the the minds of the IT people everytime and everywhere you encounter it.
IT people have one particular weakness (generally) and that is that they are strong on logic. So I like to ask them, when viewing some balls-up (and its actually best to pick an example from the past), "so whose fault - ultimately - was that?"
Take the cleaner unplugging the network power in order to run their vacumn cleaner .. "so whose fault was that?", "Ours, because it shouldn't have been plugged in anywhere where anyone unauthorised would have access to, and it should have been a 'captive' plug (basically difficult to remove) and it should have been labelled".
Logic, with some folk, will win over prejudice. If you can get your IT techs to 'take this on board' all you have to do is get them to tell the IT consumers what's actually happening and they too will start taking their IT responsibilities more seriously.
Oddly enough, you'll get more respect from IT consumers by admitting that things are "the fault" of IT, and you'll find that it's easier to fix those things because the IT consumers will be 'coming along with you' as allies rather than enemies.
You know, they say that the best thing to bring together people who don't normally get along with each other is some 'common enemy'. Well we don't need to invent one, we have one ready-made. It is the sorry state of our IT environments, and our common cause can be to improve them, and in that drive our companies business, our job satisfaction, and our skill levels ahead.

Good post!
One of the recent developments I've been witnessing is how 'trust' works in organisations both small and large.
With the every-increasing enthusiasm for open source software decision makers are now realising the value of open systems thinking.
Open systems tend to create transparency, this generates trust and will often lead to successful transactions - transactions of knowledge, authority, tactics, strategy and business.
The organisations that leverage and provide open access to wikis, forums and other content creation and aggregation technologies for their employers witness very quickly the change in productivity, accountability and referenceability of participants in an organisation's ecosystem.
You highlight that you ask the question of fault-ownership which is understandable but I'd hasten to recommend that assigning blame is never very positive for staff morale. It is much better to bring together the necessary parties and have them discuss why the problem has occured and facilitate that discussion so that all parties can understand their role in making the IT systems more secure and productive tool of business.
Posted by: Ed Daniel | November 08, 2005 at 07:28 PM
I've often felt that IT should be more open with its "internal customers". All too many departments fall prey to what I call the "glass house" mentality. . . "we'll hide in our glass house until you come and throw stones at us".
Posted by: Pete | January 26, 2006 at 10:03 PM